Mothers who particularly love newborns fall into two categories: one is when the family comes together to help take care of the child, sharing the mother's fatigue and allowing her to experience the joy of parenting more quickly; the other is an unconscious display for others and herself — an act — but this act is actually not a bad thing for the mother herself.
Most women use this "act" of love to hypnotize themselves. When people around them think it's only natural for mothers to love their children, they also hypnotize themselves in this way, gradually accepting their identity as mothers and quickly falling in love with their babies.
It also doesn't rule out cases like Zhuzi's wife, where life is too difficult and tiring, and even hypnosis doesn't work.
Ask yourself this: Who would instantly love a baby that's so exhausting and tormenting if not for some self-masochism?
