"Just sharing, will that make him proactively help me solve my problems?" Xia Hui asked.
"That depends on your communication techniques with him," Ning Youguang chuckled.
"..." Xia Hui scratched her head, "Darling, teach me more, please."
"First, genuinely describe your recent situation to him, then express your feelings, and finally tell him your needs," Ning Youguang advised. "In the first two steps, avoid any judgments or assumptions - stick to the facts. In the last step, when stating your needs, focus on the core issue without deviation. Be firm and articulate, devoid of negative emotions. Avoid assigning blame or questioning the importance of your needs—steadfastly hold onto them and compel him to give a positive response."
—"Learn to manage your husband, sister."
"Okay." Xia Hui felt that regarding the topic of managing her husband, what Ning Youguang advised was digestible enough, "What about my mother-in-law?"
