"Xiao Wei, whether brother-in-law truly loves sister or not is something we can't ask or control, after all, it's a matter between them as a couple. As outsiders, what we can do is to protect our own family from getting hurt. If because of us, our family keeps getting hurt and in pain again and again, what are we really trying to achieve by treating them this way?
Some things don't need to be complicated. If our interference makes everything too complicated, do you think that would be a good thing for us? Or on the other hand, would it be a joy and happiness for them?
You know, there are things we shouldn't interfere with.
Because maybe that thing wasn't that painful initially, but in the end, our involvement could make them sad and unhappy. By doing this, we are not helping them, but hurting them. We all hope our loved ones can live happily and joyfully, which is the most important thing for us. We shouldn't let our loved ones suffer and be in pain for our own selfish reasons!
