Ge Dong is already thirty-two years old this year. He graduated from a second-tier university with a major in Mechanical Engineering, has worked in sales and sold insurance. He had a girlfriend he started dating during college, who stuck with him for many years. They got married four years ago, and then divorced three years ago.
The reason for the divorce was simple: they were defeated by stark reality.
Especially for a couple like them, who are working in a big city far from home, reality is really cruel. No house, no car, and at thirty, they still couldn't afford to have a child. Divorce became inevitable.
Nowadays, many women can't stand grievances, especially material grievances.
Of course, as a man, if you don't have money, you have no right to get married, let alone have children. Otherwise, you're just harming yourself and others.
If you can't provide a woman with material security in life and give her enough sense of security, marriage can't possibly be happy.
