"Happy...trouble?"
Mitsuri Kanroji was a little confused about what Mengmeng meant. Why did she suddenly say that her troubles were happiness?
Ye Meng also smiled and said, "Looking at you, it seems you didn't realize your problem until this blind date, right?"
Mitsuri Kanroji also nodded and said: "Yes, that's indeed the case..."
Ye Meng also smiled and said, "Let's put it this way, of your three problems, the appetite and hair color are actually quite serious for people from ordinary families in this era."
Hearing Ye Meng suddenly say this, Mitsuri Ganlu Temple couldn't help but become nervous.
"Why...why do you say that?"
Mitsuri Kanroji couldn't quite understand why Ye Meng said that hair color and appetite were serious problems for ordinary families.
Ye Meng did not intend to keep the secret and said directly: "First of all, your appetite is the problem.
"Although there's an old saying that being able to eat is a blessing, there's also an idiom about eating, drinking, whoring, and gambling. Have you ever heard of this expression?"
Although Ganlu Temple Mitsuri didn't know what Ye Meng was going to say, she nodded and said, "Well, it probably describes those people who don't work hard and only cause trouble to their families."
Ye Meng nodded and said, "Yes, that's right. Moreover, although eating and drinking are normal human needs, they are ranked first in this idiom, which means that eating and drinking can also bring trouble to the family to a certain extent."
"Because among the derogatory terms related to eating and drinking, there is 'gluttonous and lazy', which represents excessive enjoyment and waste beyond the normal basic needs of life."
"Miss Ganlu Temple, you were born into a relatively wealthy family, right?"
After hearing this, Mitsuri Ganlu Temple roughly understood what Ye Meng meant by the bad things.
She was born in a wealthy family, so even though she has a big appetite, her family can still afford to feed her.
However, if it were an ordinary family, it would be very difficult.
It's even possible that the amount she eats alone is equivalent to the expenses of a family of three for a day or even several days!
The man who rejected her blind date today has made it very clear. At the same time, the man probably rejected her ruthlessly because he felt that he could not afford to support her.
Seeing Ganlu Temple Mitsuri's reaction, Ye Meng smiled and said, "It seems you have realized it." Then I won't continue to talk about this topic.
"Another issue is hair color. It's not a big deal, but it's not a small one either."
"Humans have always been social animals, so they are very xenophobic towards those who are different from them."
Especially Sakura, the vast majority of people in this country can be said to be extremely xenophobic in their bones.
I heard that due to the lack of the spiritual foundation of human consciousness and world consciousness, the patriotism of the Sakura people is always accompanied by xenophobia, manifesting itself as outright insularism.
Such xenophobia has affected almost every aspect of daily life.
"Your parents may not care about your uniqueness because you are their child, but to strangers who meet you for the first time, you who are completely incompatible with them are like a monster that they should avoid like the plague.
"Furthermore, for ordinary people, what they desire more than immediate wealth and fame is stability!"
"But even with the situation (CDCB), this is a daily routine they have to work extremely hard to maintain, so they can't withstand any setbacks."
"And you, who are almost completely different from ordinary people and have obvious flaws, are probably a huge change that will disrupt their stable lives."
"For your family, these shortcomings are still within their ability, so they don't care. But for ordinary people, they are variables beyond their family's tolerance!"
"No matter what it is, as long as it is beyond an individual's ability, it will be regarded as a 'burden'!"
"And in this world, the vast majority of people would not bear a burden that they don't have to bear for no reason!"
Listening to Ye Meng's explanation, Mitsuri Ganlu Temple suddenly understood, but at the same time she felt a little depressed.
"So...is that what happened?"
So the existence of "special" means something ominous to ordinary people?
Seeing the look on Ganlu Temple Mitsuri's face, Meng Meng beside her came forward and said with a comforting smile: "You don't have to be so depressed. We have said before that it would be a disaster for an average family."
"You know, if a man and a woman want to be happy together, then the most important thing is that they are well-matched!"
"And this well-matched status doesn't just mean equality in wealth, but equality in values, thinking, vision, perspective, cognition, and upbringing!"
"As long as the averages of either party are lower than those of the other, psychological pressure will arise!
"Take your strength for example. Any man would feel a lot of pressure if he found out that he, as a man, is weaker than a girl who looks even softer than him! Because other neighbors would talk about you.
And those men who have low self-esteem but high self-esteem will suppress you for the sake of self-esteem, devaluing you to the point of being worthless, in order to satisfy their own vanity!"
"The blind date you had today is just like that!"
"The only way he can appear less cowardly in front of you is by constantly belittling you!"
After hearing Mengmeng's explanation, Mitsuri Kanroji finally understood why her blind date today had said such harsh words.
Is it because of self-esteem issues?
"So, if I want to find someone to marry, I can only look for a man who is stronger than me, whose family is at least as wealthy as mine, and who can accept my hair color?"