Zindagi ek school hai,
par yahan fees paise me nahi, loss me li jaati hai.
Koi apna chhod ke jaata hai — lesson milta hai.
Koi sapna toot jaata hai — lesson milta hai.
Koi bharosa tod deta hai — lesson milta hai.
Aur ye lessons…
👉 bahut mehngay hote hain.
Is book me main wahi lessons likh raha hoon
jo log status update me nahi likhte,
jo log raat ko chup-chaap seekh lete hain.
📖 Chapter 1: Bharosa – Sabse Mehnga Investment
Humein bachpan se sikhaya jaata hai:
"Sab pe bharosa karo."
Par sach ye hai —
bharosa karna ek investment hai,
aur har investment return nahi deta.
Main us din samjha
jab jis insaan ke liye maine duniya se ladayi ki,
usi ne sabse pehle haath chhod diya.
Lesson?
👉 Zyada bharosa = zyada risk
Expensive Lesson #1:
"Log badalte nahi, bas tum unhe pehle samajh nahi paate."
📖 Chapter 2: Time – Jo Free Lagta Hai, Par Sabse Mehnga Hai
Paise wapas aa sakte hain.
Log shayad wapas aa jaayein.
Par time? Kabhi nahi.
Maine saalon waste kiye
galat logon pe,
galat expectations pe,
aur "kal kar lenge" pe.
Jab realise hua,
toh time ja chuka tha.
Expensive Lesson #2:
"Jo aaj ignore karte ho, wahi kal regret ban jaata hai."
📖 Chapter 3: Mehnat – Jab Talent Bhi Chup Ho Jaata Hai
Talent ek gift hai,
par mehnat ek aadat.
Maine talented log dekhe
jo sirf baatein karte reh gaye.
Aur average log dekhe
jo roz thoda-thoda karte rahe
aur ek din sabse aage nikal gaye.
Life ka sach:
👉 Mehnat shor nahi karti, result karta hai.
Expensive Lesson #3:
"Talent tumhe start deta hai, par finish sirf mehnat karwati hai."
📖 Chapter 4: Log Sirf Result Se Pyaar Karte Hain
Jab tum struggle me hote ho,
log busy hote hain.
Jab tum jeet jaate ho,
log proud feel karte hain.
Kisi ne tumhari raaton ki mehnat nahi dekhi,
par success dekh ke sab bolte hain:
"Hum toh pehle se jaante the."
Expensive Lesson #4:
"Log tumse nahi, tumhari success se loyal hote hain."
📖 Chapter 5: Khud Se Baat Karna Seekho
Zindagi me ek point aata hai
jab koi samajhne wala nahi hota.
Tab agar tum khud se baat karna nahi jaante,
toh tum toot jaate ho.
Maine seekha —
khud ko sambhalna,
khud ko motivate karna,
aur khud ko maaf karna.
Expensive Lesson #5:
"Jo khud ka saath de, wahi sabse ameer hota hai."📕 Mehnge Sabak
PART – 2
Kyunki zindagi repeat nahi karti, sirf yaad dilati hai…
📖 Chapter 6: Paisa – Zaroori Hai, Par Sab Kuch Nahi
Bachpan me hume bola gaya,
"Paisa sab kuch nahi hota."
Par jab jeb khali hoti hai na,
toh duniya ke dialogues bhi mehngay lagte hain.
Maine dekha hai —
paisa na ho toh izzat kam ho jaati hai,
choices limited ho jaati hain,
aur sapne "adjust" hone lagte hain.
Par ek aur sach bhi hai:
👉 Paisa tumhari value nahi hota, par duniya tumhe value dene me paisa dekhti hai.
Expensive Lesson #6:
"Paisa goal nahi hona chahiye, par paisa ke bina goal mushkil ho jaata hai."
📖 Chapter 7: Failure – Jo Todta Nahi, Banaata Hai
Failure ka naam sunte hi
log darr jaate hain.
Par failure ek aisa teacher hai
jo marks nahi deta,
sirf character deta hai.
Main gira,
bahut baar gira.
Log hans rahe the,
main khud pe doubt kar raha tha.
Par har failure ke baad
main thoda zyada strong hua.
Expensive Lesson #7:
"Failure tumhari aukaat nahi batata, tumhari taiyaari batata hai."
📖 Chapter 8: Comparison – Chupchaap Maarne Wala Zehar
Social media kholo,
koi better hai,
koi aage hai,
koi zyada khush dikh raha hai.
Aur tum?
Khud se ladne lagte ho.
Par sach ye hai:
👉 Tumhara chapter 1, kisi aur ke chapter 10 se compare mat karo.
Har kisi ka time alag hota hai,
har kisi ka struggle private hota hai.
Expensive Lesson #8:
"Comparison khushi ka killer hai."
📖 Chapter 9: Akelapan – Jab Sab Chale Jaate Hain
Ek waqt aata hai
jab messages kam ho jaate hain,
calls band ho jaati hain,
aur room zyada shaant lagne lagta hai.
Pehle akelapan dar lagta hai.
Phir aadat ban jaata hai.
Phir strength.
Akelapan sikhata hai:
khud pe depend kaise hona hai
bina taali ke kaam kaise karna hai
bina support ke chalna kaise hai
Expensive Lesson #9:
"Akelapan saza nahi, training hai."
📖 Chapter 10: Sapne – Jo Sab Kuch Cheen Lete Hain
Sapne free me nahi aate.
Wo neend cheente hain,
comfort cheente hain,
aur kabhi-kabhi log bhi.
Jab tum sapne ke peeche bhaagte ho,
toh duniya bolegi:
"Pagal ho kya?"
Aur jab tum poora kar loge,
toh bolegi:
"Hume pata tha."
Expensive Lesson #10:
"Sapne wo karwate hain jo average log nahi kar paate."
📖 Chapter 11: Self-Respect – Jo Kabhi Girne Nahi Deni
Pyaar ke naam pe,
dosti ke naam pe,
opportunity ke naam pe
hum khud ko gira dete hain.
Par ek baar self-respect chali gayi na,
toh kuch bhi bacha nahi rehta.
Seekho "NO" bolna.
Seekho peeche hatna.
Seekho khud ko choose karna.
Expensive Lesson #11:
"Jo khud ki respect nahi karta, duniya usse use karti hai."
📖 Chapter 12: Sabr – Sabse Silent Power
Sab kuch turant chahiye:
success,
results,
recognition.
Par zindagi slow cooker hai.
Cheezein time leti hain.
Jo ruk jaata hai,
wo haar jaata hai.
Jo sabr karta hai,
wo jeet jaata hai.
Expensive Lesson #12:
"Sabr ka phal sweet hota hai, par wait bahut mehnga hota hai."
🌑 End Note (Is Part ka)
Ye lessons books me nahi milte.
Ye logon se,
situations se,
aur khud se milte hain.
Agar tum yahan tak padh aaye ho,
iska matlab hai tum seekh rahe ho.
Aur jo seekh raha hai na,
wo zindagi me kahin na kahin jeetega.Sabak
PART – 3
Jab motivation jhooth bolti hai aur discipline sach…
📖 Chapter 13: Dil Tootna – Sabse Honest Teacher
Dil tootna sirf pyaar me nahi hota.
Kabhi dosti me hota hai.
Kabhi expectations me.
Kabhi khud se.
Jab dil tootta hai na,
toh tum emotional nahi hote,
tum aware ho jaate ho.
Tum samajhne lagte ho:
kaun sirf baatein karta tha
kaun sirf zarurat me yaad karta tha
aur kaun sirf tab saath tha jab sab theek tha
Expensive Lesson #13:
"Dil tootne ke baad hi dimag kaam karna shuru karta hai."
📖 Chapter 14: Motivation – Jo Roz Saath Nahi Rehti
Motivation ek guest jaisi hoti hai.
Aati hai,
photo leti hai,
aur chali jaati hai.
Par discipline?
Wo permanent resident hota hai.
Maine wait kiya motivation ka…
par kaam tab hua
jab mood kharab hone ke bawajood bhi main kaam pe baitha.
Expensive Lesson #14:
"Motivation shuru karwati hai, discipline finish."
📖 Chapter 15: Discipline – Jab Koi Dekh Nahi Raha Hota
Asli mehnat tab hoti hai
jab koi taali nahi hoti,
jab koi like nahi hota,
jab koi dekh nahi raha hota.
Roz thoda-thoda kaam,
bina drama,
bina excuses.
Discipline boring hota hai,
par result exciting hota hai.
Expensive Lesson #15:
"Jo roz karta hai, wahi jeet ta hai."
📖 Chapter 16: Khud Ko Prove Karna Band Karo
Tum sabko prove karte-karte
khud ko bhool jaate ho.
Har kisi ko jawab dena,
har kisi ko dikhana,
ye energy waste hai.
Jo log tumhe samajhna chahte hain,
wo samajh jaate hain.
Baaki ko proof ki zarurat hi nahi.
Expensive Lesson #16:
"Apni value explain nahi, demonstrate ki jaati hai."
📖 Chapter 17: Comfort Zone – Silent Killer
Comfort achha lagta hai,
par yahi growth ka dushman hai.
Jab tak thoda uncomfortable nahi hoge,
tab tak zindagi comfortable nahi hogi.
Risk lo.
Galti karo.
Seekho.
Expensive Lesson #17:
"Comfort zone me sirf regret grow karta hai."
📖 Chapter 18: Routine – Jab Life Control Me Aati Hai
Routine boring lagta hai,
par chaos se better hai.
Ek fixed time,
ek fixed effort,
ek fixed direction.
Jis din routine ban gaya na,
us din luck ki zarurat kam ho jaati hai.
Expensive Lesson #18:
"Routine tumhari life ka remote control hai."
📖 Chapter 19: Khud Se Wada – Jo Kabhi Nahi Todna
Log promises tod dete hain,
situations badal jaati hain,
par khud se kiya wada?
Wo tootna nahi chahiye.
Roz khud se bolo:
"Aaj bhi main try karunga."
Expensive Lesson #19:
"Jo khud ka saath chhod deta hai, wo sab haar jaata hai."
🌒 End Note (Is Part ka)
Zindagi tumhe strong banane ke liye
tumhe pehle akela karti hai.
Agar tum abhi struggle me ho,
toh iska matlab hai
tumhe banaya ja raha hai.