Have you ever noticed that when someone stays quite, replies late...
Your mind questions 'why'?
"Why are they trying to ignore me, maybe I am wrong "----- NO----- you're not
When someone behavior is changed, you think what happened? Am I wrong?
You don't ask, you assume
And then you believe your assumption
The problem is not you think, the problem is you know you think
'They are mad at me'
'They don't care anymore'
'They are loosing interest'
But did they said that?
-----NO-----
But your own mind filled the blanks
But the truth is, your brain can't read minds
Maybe they have a bad day
Maybe they are thinking of something else
But your brains asks
Why?
It thinks :
Expecting worse can make me feel better but, NO
You can't hear someone's thought
You see their actions, and even actions can have many reasons...
But your mind choose the worst reason first
UGGGHH WHY?
Its not protection, its fear that your brain is creating ...
When you assume the worst, you hurt yourself before your mind can even find the truth
You feel the pain for the reason, that may not even exist
You start living in your imagination instead of reality...
HERE IS SMALL RULE TO REMEMBER
If they didn't say it, dont think about it
If you don't know the truth, don't try to make one
Not every silence has a hidden meaning
Sometimes silence is just silence
TO BE HONEST:
You deserve love, happiness, attention, care and everything but for that stop making a whole spider webs in your mind
Choose your peace, your happiness because remember, you also mean a whole universe for someone, maybe for your family, friends and maybe you can also be someone's dream girl
And I know many of us have toxic parents but they also care but don't show
Don't think about people, think of yourself------ YOU MATTER A LOT-----