Yeh kahani hai mere zindagi par hai. Aur ismein mere sare galtiyan aur uss galtiyon se sikhi Hui kahin batein bataungi . Aur mujhe apna pahla pyar kaise mila tha , kahan mila tha, Ham donon ke pyar ke baare me bhi is kahani aapko dikhega.
Yaha ek aisi ladki ki kahani Hai Jo Hyderabad jile ke ek chote se Shehar me jiska Naam Amberpet tha wah yaha ladhki rahti thi.
Wah ek aisi ladki Thi jisse Apne Man ki batein Zahir karna nahin aata tha ,waha Apne Man ki batein Apne Man mein Hi rakhti thi. Lekin vah ladhki . Apne Parivar se bahut pyar karti thi ,uske Parivar mein bahut sare log the .uska ek bahut bada Parivar tha jise angreji mein jo joint family kahate Hain .
uske Parivar mein uske dada, dadi ,maa ,baap ,chacha or chachi, ek Chota bhai aur do choti behane thi .
Yahan jis ladki ke bare mein baat ki ja rahi hai wahan ladki aur koi nahin Jo is kahani Ko likh rahi hai wahi hai ,yani ki Mai Avantika Singh yah mere jivan ki kahani Hai jisse ap sabko padh kar acha lagega aur ap isse kuch sikh paoge .Mujhe apni dadi se bahut pyar tha aur sath hi sath mai Dada ko bhi bahut pyar karti thi, parantu abhi vah is duniya mein nahin rahe. Jab bhi Main unhe yaad Karti hu toh mujhe bahut dukh hota Hai . ki Kash vo log hote to veh log mujhe aaj iss tarah padhe likhe aur mujhe naukari karte hue dekh kar bahut khush hote. Mere dadi mujhse bahut pyar karti thi aur Main bhi unse bahut pyar karti hun .lekin main kabhi unko yaha kabhi jahir nahin kar Payi ki mai unse Kitna pyar Karti hun. mujhe unki ehmiyat unke jaane ke bad samajh aayi .
Main ek aisi ladki Thi Jo unki batein kabhi nahin sunti thi, unka kam kuch bhi nahin karti thi , Lekin jab vah is duniya se chal Basi tab, hamare Parivar ko aur mujhe unki ehmiyat, unka pyar samajh aaya .ki woh kitni achi thi .
kehte hai na ki log jab tak zinda hote hai tab tak unki ehmiyat samjh nhi aati ,aur unke jane ke baad unki ehmiyat samjh aati hai .yaha baat solah aane sach hai .
Meri dadi mujhe mere bhai behen oo se jyada pyar karti thi ,kyunki Main Ghar ki sabse pahli bachi thi . jab Main paida Hui sab log bahut khush hue the aur sabse jyada Meri dadi aur nani Khush hui thi .jab mai paida hui tak sabhi log oo ne kaha ki Ghar me Laxmi aayi hai . Kyu ki hum jab bahut gareeb hua karte the .khane tak ke paise nhi hote the. Mere papa aur mere chacha kuch na kuch chota mota kaam karke kama lete the . Meri dadi bhi lehenge sine ka kaam karti thi . Lekin un sab ke bawajud bhi hume sirf khane tak hi paisa nikalte the . Jaise hi mai paida hui . Mere papa aur chacha ne naya business shuru kiya .waha business gadi servicing karna aur gadi oo ko dhona tha . Isse hamare ghar paisa bhar pur aane laga . Aur mere parivar ke log oo kisi se baat karne ke liye bhi paise lagane padhte the . Kisi se baat karne ka matlab hai jo humse bohot dur ho .mere maa ko apni maa se aur me chachi ko apni maa se baat karne ke liye bhar mohalle ke telephone me paise dalkar baat karna padhta tha .phir jaise hi papa aur chacha ne business shuru kiya aur usme aaye hue paiso se hamare ghar ka pahla phone jo ki telophone aaya .
Mera parivar bahot khush hua . Kisi se baat karne liye bahar jane ki zarurat nhi padhti thi .
Phir aise taise mai Badi Hui .meri dadi ne aur papa ne mujhe nursery me nhi dalkar unhone mujhe play school mein Dala .mere dadi ki bahut ichha Thi ki Mai play school mein jaaun .aur unhone mera dhakila vahi karvaya .uss play school ka naam tha bodhi vruksh Play School. kuchh sal mai play school mein hi Thi, use Play School ki bahut yadein mere pass Hai .Kahi sare tasvir mere pass ab bhi hai .mujhe waha se kahi sare khelo mein certificate aur medal mile.
aur phir play school se nikal kar nursery school me Dala Gaya . aur mere school ka naam Ravindra Bharati School .shehar ka bahut jyada bada school tha, aur mere dadi ki bahut ichha thi ki mai bahut bade school me apni padhaai kar paaun .paison ki tangi toh bahut thi Lekin vah Meri dadi khud mehnat karke mujhe padhava thi .mere Papa bhi kuchh paise dalkar mujhe padhaate the .
aur aise taise mai 3rd class Tak pounch gai . Phir paise nahin Rahane ki wajah Se mujhe use School ko chodna pada . Hamari ek Sabse Badi majburi thi, aur mujhe sripuram colony Naam ki ek jagah thi wahi area me Mera School tha.
jiska Naam Sharda Vidyalay High School mujhe school tha .waha se bahut mujhe protsahan Mila yahan tak mere adhyapakon Ne aur adhyapikao ne mujhe bahut acche se padhaaya.
aise taise yahan per bhi maine apne dost banaye. kahin sare yaden Jodi iss school me .phir pounch Gayi aatvi kaksha mein .aur usmein jaate hi kuchh mahino ke bad mujhe ek ladka pasand aaya usse ,maine apna Sacha pyar maan liya . Aur usne aisa kiya jo mai sapne me bhi nhi sonch sakti thi .